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I’ve known Domme Claire online for three years now and in that time, I've gone from being one of the biggest TikTok fans to Claire's personal toy in real life sessions during their visits to Munich. It was a big change for me! And I can only say: WOW, what I have been able to experience since then has had a huge impact on my life and changed it for the better. Experiencing real subspace for the first time, living out secret fantasies that I didn't dare or was too shy for before, trying out lots of new kinks and ways of playing, and much more. My clear recommendation goes out to EVERYONE: Gender, age, nationality and appearance are completely irrelevant, and it doesn't matter if you are more into gentle sensation play or the maybe harder stuff: Get involved, book sessions whether online or in the dungeon, TRUST Domme Claire and have a hell of a lot of fun! You should only approach Domme Claire with a lot of honesty and respect and always consider Claire's mental needs!

I was fortunate to meet Domme Claire in 2022. It has been a magical journey ever since. I was definitely a newbie to BDSM and extremely nervous prior to my consult and then our first session. Claire has a demeanor coupled with their transparency that very quickly put me at ease. I am still nervous before a session but now it is more like an anxious anticipation of what is to come. There have been ups and downs and mistakes made but Claire has guided me through with honesty, patience and education. I have learned a lot about how the community works. I have been blown away with the amount of compassion, support, respect of boundaries and trust there is inside the BDSM community. I wasn’t in a great spot when we first started talking. ​ Through our different sessions (domination, story time and Development Dynamic) I started liking myself again and taking care of myself more. I have learned things about myself I never new existed. This has helped me grow both mentally and physically and validate that it is ok to be who I am. As my owner I view Domme Claire as an educator, life coach, disciplinarian, compassionate supporter but most importantly a Trusted Friend. Thank you for being there Daddy!

A big thank you to Domme Claire for graciously hosting us in their dungeon today. The space is absolutely stunning, and they are an incredibly amazing human. Much appreciated! ​ Alice and I had the privilege of enrolling in the couples guided dungeon domination session on Black Friday, and today, we entered with a mix of excitement and nerves. With my sub having completed the vetting process earlier, we were all set to go. ​ Following a warm welcome, an offer of water, and a relaxed chat to help ease our nerves, we delved into the experience. We began with a grounding exercise, a quick consent and safe word check-in and then progressed through a well-structured three-phase scene involving flogging with a heavy flogger, paddling (fave), and wax play. Alice embraced her submissive/bottom role while I endeavoured to tap into my inner sadist that was hiding in there somewhere, haha. ​ The experience was incredible, and we had the opportunity to run through the scene twice. I gained valuable insights into refining communication, technical techniques, and, importantly, mastering our breathing! ​ Overall, this was an extraordinary experience and comes highly recommended for couples in a dynamic seeking to elevate their play beyond the bedroom.

I’ve known Claire for over a year now, and they’ve made SUCH a big impact in my life. They’ve helped me through really tough and big feelings (literally watched me hide in my bathroom), taught me that saying “no” is okay, and showed me that I deserve basic human needs. But amongst those big difficult things, they’ve also made me giggle at the most unhinged things, and let me be exactly who I am and who I need to be in front of them. ​ I can’t really put into words how much I’ve changed since being in a dynamic with Claire, they’re SO PATIENT with me. I can’t even believe that I’m not afraid to mess up at all; they approach habits with understanding, creating an environment where I feel safe to be vulnerable. They’ve taught me what it means to feel safe and what it’s like to be cared for. ​ Not going to lie, I have definitely made them frustrated with my inability to care for myself (although they probably won’t admit it… but I know I’m difficult). They’re always the first to cheer me on when I do find the urge to function and when I have exciting things to share. I’m excited to see how much my brain can implode with the stuff they’ll teach me as we continue our dynamic.

Thanks again for last night. It was everything I wished for. We had an amazing experience, and I learnt alot of new things. You are a wonderful facilitator and guide.

As it's coming close to our first year in our Personal Development Dynamic, I've been thinking a lot of how much they’ve helped me improved my life. I think that there's been more than one night in a week in the past month when I've not teared up with happiness about having Domme Claire in my life. They took me from survival mode to actually caring for things and myself! ​ The dynamic has had its ups and downs, as every relationship does. At the lowest points when I was even thinking of ending the dynamic because I felt like such a failure and not being worth Domme Claire's time, they suggested some tweaks to my daily and weekly chores that got things back on track. When on my ups, they suggest that I add some things to the list. If it was too much, we adjust it again. This is what a real dynamic is about. The most important thing is to be honest and be open to new ideas! On top of Domme Claire being one of the most supportive people I know, they are also probably the most sadistic one! Be careful with your words and what you wish for.. “Help me make sure I do task X” began with me being locked up for two weeks (and me failing the task (not because of them, but me just being the procrastinator I am..)) On the other hand, if you’ve been doing good, set up a real challenge for yourself: If you succeed, you get to feel good about yourself on top of receiving praise from Domme Claire. If you fail, you get to enjoy the cute smile Domme Claire has when they decide your punishment and the pleasure they receive when you complete said punishment. Either way, either one or both of you win!

I was beyond nervous, excited, but very nervous. Well, I am chock-full of insecurities one of my biggest insecurities is the fear of rejection. I was super worried that they might reject me for several reasons, one of which is that I struggle with money management and by living paycheck to paycheck I'm not financially secure enough. I didn't really know what to expect but I was happy to see that they were keeping things calm and casual from the get-go. I decided to offer an unsolicited suggestion regarding one of their recent educational videos. Domme Claire was very receptive to the suggestion and just that simple interaction helped settle my nerves immensely. This reassured me that I was in a safe space. So, after a few months of following Domme Claire, first on TikTok, then Patreon and YouTube here is my impression of Domme Claire: they are an incredible person who has an incredible amount of patience, kindness, compassion, and willingness to educate, work with, and help those who approach them with respect, honesty, and earnestness. They exude confidence and have the strength of character to support and protect those whom they care for as any great Dom would for their subbies.

I had my first session with Domme Claire last month (Aug 2023). I felt cared for and listened to. I had such an amazing time and I still remember the subspace that I dropped into. I'm excited to do another session soon... Maybe even with the kitten outfits.

Since I started my BDSM journey some years ago, I learned a lot from Domme Claire either on BDSM and consent as well on self-improvement and self-love. During the self-improvement webinar we learned about time management, self-care, journaling and creating a vision board. They told me, a few days before the webinar how nervous they were, with the Thoughts like “is this good enough?” and “am I knowledgeable enough?”While shouting some positive affirmation I told them they are going to be more than ok and obviously I was right. They knew what they were talking about and how to keep a bunch of neurospicy brats focused on the webinar. During the webinar there were a lot of good questions asked, where Claire had good answers on. If they didn’t know the answer, they wrote the question down to answer it later. I will never stop saying that Domme Claire gives the best education. Even tough I am too stubborn to listen to someone’s advice, they were able to finally convince me to make a vision board and do more about self-care. They taught me how to get some priorities straight and what to do when things get too overwhelming. I can’t wait to learn more from Domme Claire, in a kind and cruel way.