Safe, discreet, inclusive Cape Town Dominatrix

Unleash your desires, not yourself. Enjoy a world class, LGBTQ+ friendly, professional dominatrix experience. Based in Cape Town, but available everywhere, I ensure safety, inclusivity, and personal fulfilment.

Personalised Experience

Customised to your desires and boundaries.

Emotional & Psychological Release

I provide a safe outlet for stress and emotional release.

Expert Knowledge and Skill

Years of experience with proven expertise.

Safe and Controlled Environment

I guarantee safety and consent in my sessions.

Empowerment and Self-Discovery

Time with me facilitates personal growth and self-awareness.

Empowerment, self-discovery, and release.

When you step into my dungeon, you enter a welcoming space of exploration, empowerment, and plenty of fun. It’s more than just a room—it’s a sanctuary where you can shed inhibitions, embrace your true self, and dive into a world where your fantasies come alive.

My sessions are designed to facilitate personal growth, self-awareness, and acceptance. They offer a psychological release and a safe outlet for emotions, stress, and desires. Here, you can experience the freedom to let go, be vulnerable, and find solace in a space that prioritizes your well-being.

We will dive deep into your fantasies, unlock hidden desires, and explore new aspects of your mind, creating a transformative experience. Every session is judgment-free, allowing you to express yourself fully and authentically in a safe and supportive environment.

About Me

Kind and Cruel

I’m a professional Dominatrix based in Cape Town with a beautiful, discreet, fully equipped dungeon just on the edge of the city, designed for intimate and thrilling sessions.

I also offer online sessions, connecting with clients worldwide, and catering to those who crave satisfaction—or delicious denial.

As a kink educator and BDSM event organiser, I host workshops, parties, and community networking evenings from my dungeon and online, creating spaces for connection and exploration.

I embody the duality of Kind and Cruel; pushing you to your limits for my amusement, then making you melt with unexpected praise and gentle words.

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Sessions, Dynamics and Packages

Become Mine

Whether you want to play online or in my dungeon, everything starts with an application form and an introductory session. This initial step ensures our play remains safe, sane, consensual, and, most importantly, fun. During the session, we’ll discuss your needs, limits, and desires, laying the groundwork for an engaging and fulfilling experience.

I embrace all kinks and fetishes, so don’t hesitate to share your deepest desires—this space is entirely free of judgment unless, of course, that’s what excites you.

Once you have applied, we will build your fantasy dynamic together, or you can choose one of my packages that include keyholding and personal development.

Whatever your path, our time together will be crafted to bring your fantasies to life.

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My Spicy Content

Dip your toe in

You can find all my FemDom content on my LoyalFans, where I offer an exclusive look into my world of domination.

Watch me play with subbies in my dungeon, exploring a variety of scenes and kinks tailored to different desires. From bondage and discipline to sensual domination, there’s something for everyone. Dive into my immersive POV roleplaying content, where I embody various personas like your strict boss, student, the librarian, and much more.

I collaborate with some of the best spicy content creators in South Africa to create a variety of fun, sexy content. And I’m always looking for new people to film with so if you’re interested in collaborating or having your session with me filmed, get in touch.

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BDSM Education

Join my Communities

My Discord is a welcoming space for all kinksters—regardless of role, gender, experience level, or orientation. It’s where we connect, share advice, and support each other to build a safer, more empowered BDSM community.

Join us to engage, learn, and grow in an inclusive environment. Whether you’re new or experienced, you’ll find valuable conversations and shared understanding.

You can also find me on YouTube and TikTok for educational videos, live streams, and community interaction.

Want even more? Support me on Patreon for exclusive behind-the-scenes content, filmed scenes, and special perks.

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Explore with confidence

Immerse yourself in the captivating world of BDSM with my expert guidance. Explore your deepest desires in a space that prioritizes safety, consent, and mutual respect. I provide detailed advice on best practices and how to embrace your fantasies confidently and responsibly.

My blog is packed with valuable insights, practical tips, and real-life experiences, offering a wealth of information for those looking to deepen their understanding of kink.

Whether you’re a curious beginner or a seasoned enthusiast, my blog offers something for everyone. Discover new kinks, learn how to find compatible partners, and build a strong foundation of trust and knowledge in your BDSM exploration. Join me and connect with a like-minded community dedicated to the art of safe and consensual kink.

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I’ve known Domme Claire online for three years now and in that time, I've gone from being one of the biggest TikTok fans to Claire's personal toy in real life sessions during their visits to Munich. It was a big change for me! And I can only say: WOW, what I have been able to experience since then has had a huge impact on my life and changed it for the better. Experiencing real subspace for the first time, living out secret fantasies that I didn't dare or was too shy for before, trying out lots of new kinks and ways of playing, and much more. My clear recommendation goes out to EVERYONE: Gender, age, nationality and appearance are completely irrelevant, and it doesn't matter if you are more into gentle sensation play or the maybe harder stuff: Get involved, book sessions whether online or in the dungeon, TRUST Domme Claire and have a hell of a lot of fun! You should only approach Domme Claire with a lot of honesty and respect and always consider Claire's mental needs!
MicroMike
I was fortunate to meet Domme Claire in 2022. It has been a magical journey ever since. I was definitely a newbie to BDSM and extremely nervous prior to my consult and then our first session. Claire has a demeanor coupled with their transparency that very quickly put me at ease. I am still nervous before a session but now it is more like an anxious anticipation of what is to come. There have been ups and downs and mistakes made but Claire has guided me through with honesty, patience and education. I have learned a lot about how the community works. I have been blown away with the amount of compassion, support, respect of boundaries and trust there is inside the BDSM community. I wasn’t in a great spot when we first started talking. ​ Through our different sessions (domination, story time and Development Dynamic) I started liking myself again and taking care of myself more. I have learned things about myself I never new existed. This has helped me grow both mentally and physically and validate that it is ok to be who I am. As my owner I view Domme Claire as an educator, life coach, disciplinarian, compassionate supporter but most importantly a Trusted Friend. Thank you for being there Daddy!
Little Lamb
A big thank you to Domme Claire for graciously hosting us in their dungeon today. The space is absolutely stunning, and they are an incredibly amazing human. Much appreciated! ​ Alice and I had the privilege of enrolling in the couples guided dungeon domination session on Black Friday, and today, we entered with a mix of excitement and nerves. With my sub having completed the vetting process earlier, we were all set to go. ​ Following a warm welcome, an offer of water, and a relaxed chat to help ease our nerves, we delved into the experience. We began with a grounding exercise, a quick consent and safe word check-in and then progressed through a well-structured three-phase scene involving flogging with a heavy flogger, paddling (fave), and wax play. Alice embraced her submissive/bottom role while I endeavoured to tap into my inner sadist that was hiding in there somewhere, haha. ​ The experience was incredible, and we had the opportunity to run through the scene twice. I gained valuable insights into refining communication, technical techniques, and, importantly, mastering our breathing! ​ Overall, this was an extraordinary experience and comes highly recommended for couples in a dynamic seeking to elevate their play beyond the bedroom.
SpanksUKindly
I’ve known Claire for over a year now, and they’ve made SUCH a big impact in my life. They’ve helped me through really tough and big feelings (literally watched me hide in my bathroom), taught me that saying “no” is okay, and showed me that I deserve basic human needs. But amongst those big difficult things, they’ve also made me giggle at the most unhinged things, and let me be exactly who I am and who I need to be in front of them. ​ I can’t really put into words how much I’ve changed since being in a dynamic with Claire, they’re SO PATIENT with me. I can’t even believe that I’m not afraid to mess up at all; they approach habits with understanding, creating an environment where I feel safe to be vulnerable. They’ve taught me what it means to feel safe and what it’s like to be cared for. ​ Not going to lie, I have definitely made them frustrated with my inability to care for myself (although they probably won’t admit it… but I know I’m difficult). They’re always the first to cheer me on when I do find the urge to function and when I have exciting things to share. I’m excited to see how much my brain can implode with the stuff they’ll teach me as we continue our dynamic.
Kat
Thanks again for last night. It was everything I wished for. We had an amazing experience, and I learnt alot of new things. You are a wonderful facilitator and guide.
Robby and Sari
As it's coming close to our first year in our Personal Development Dynamic, I've been thinking a lot of how much they’ve helped me improved my life. I think that there's been more than one night in a week in the past month when I've not teared up with happiness about having Domme Claire in my life. They took me from survival mode to actually caring for things and myself! ​ The dynamic has had its ups and downs, as every relationship does. At the lowest points when I was even thinking of ending the dynamic because I felt like such a failure and not being worth Domme Claire's time, they suggested some tweaks to my daily and weekly chores that got things back on track. When on my ups, they suggest that I add some things to the list. If it was too much, we adjust it again. This is what a real dynamic is about. The most important thing is to be honest and be open to new ideas! On top of Domme Claire being one of the most supportive people I know, they are also probably the most sadistic one! Be careful with your words and what you wish for.. “Help me make sure I do task X” began with me being locked up for two weeks (and me failing the task (not because of them, but me just being the procrastinator I am..)) On the other hand, if you’ve been doing good, set up a real challenge for yourself: If you succeed, you get to feel good about yourself on top of receiving praise from Domme Claire. If you fail, you get to enjoy the cute smile Domme Claire has when they decide your punishment and the pleasure they receive when you complete said punishment. Either way, either one or both of you win!
Nik
I was beyond nervous, excited, but very nervous. Well, I am chock-full of insecurities one of my biggest insecurities is the fear of rejection. I was super worried that they might reject me for several reasons, one of which is that I struggle with money management and by living paycheck to paycheck I'm not financially secure enough. I didn't really know what to expect but I was happy to see that they were keeping things calm and casual from the get-go. I decided to offer an unsolicited suggestion regarding one of their recent educational videos. Domme Claire was very receptive to the suggestion and just that simple interaction helped settle my nerves immensely. This reassured me that I was in a safe space. So, after a few months of following Domme Claire, first on TikTok, then Patreon and YouTube here is my impression of Domme Claire: they are an incredible person who has an incredible amount of patience, kindness, compassion, and willingness to educate, work with, and help those who approach them with respect, honesty, and earnestness. They exude confidence and have the strength of character to support and protect those whom they care for as any great Dom would for their subbies.
Firbolgdruid
I had my first session with Domme Claire last month (Aug 2023). I felt cared for and listened to. I had such an amazing time and I still remember the subspace that I dropped into. I'm excited to do another session soon... Maybe even with the kitten outfits.
FruitChutney
Since I started my BDSM journey some years ago, I learned a lot from Domme Claire either on BDSM and consent as well on self-improvement and self-love. During the self-improvement webinar we learned about time management, self-care, journaling and creating a vision board. They told me, a few days before the webinar how nervous they were, with the Thoughts like “is this good enough?” and “am I knowledgeable enough?”While shouting some positive affirmation I told them they are going to be more than ok and obviously I was right. They knew what they were talking about and how to keep a bunch of neurospicy brats focused on the webinar. During the webinar there were a lot of good questions asked, where Claire had good answers on. If they didn’t know the answer, they wrote the question down to answer it later. I will never stop saying that Domme Claire gives the best education. Even tough I am too stubborn to listen to someone’s advice, they were able to finally convince me to make a vision board and do more about self-care. They taught me how to get some priorities straight and what to do when things get too overwhelming. I can’t wait to learn more from Domme Claire, in a kind and cruel way.
Shae

Got a fantasy to share?

Submit It - Properly.

Do you have a kinky scene in your head you’re dying to share with me? Don’t dump it in my inbox—submit it properly.

This is your chance to write out your most private fantasy and receive a short, thoughtful response from me. I’ll let you know what I’d do to you, how I’d twist it, or if I’d even allow it.

Respect my time. Respect my energy. If your fantasy involves me, it should benefit me too.

Tier 1 Written Response

Have a filthy little fantasy you’re dying to share? Tell me everything—properly. In this tier, you’ll submit your written fantasy, and I’ll send you a short, sharp written response. I’ll tell you exactly what I think of your desires: whether I’d indulge them, twist them, or deny you completely.

This is your chance to be seen, teased, or corrected—on my terms.

Tier 2 Audio Response

Crave the sound of my voice wrapping around your filthy little thoughts? In this tier, you’ll receive a personalised audio message via Whatsapp in response to your submitted fantasy.

You’ll hear exactly what I’d do to you… or what I wouldn’t. I might praise you, mock you, guide you—or ruin you. Either way, it will be my voice in your head, commanding your attention.

More intimate. More intoxicating. More addictive.

Tier 3 Fantasy Protocol

You’re not just looking to confess—you want to serve. In this premium tier, you’ll submit your fantasy, and I’ll respond with a short custom protocol or 1–2 tasks designed to bring it to life under my control.

This is real training. A taste of what it feels like to obey me. Whether it’s a ritual, rule, or humiliation task, you’ll carry it out knowing I’ve designed it just for your twisted little mind.

Prove your devotion. Show me you’re ready for more.

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