Welcome to the About Me page of Domme Claire. Here, you’ll discover my journey into the world of BDSM, learn about my personal limits, and understand my unwavering commitment to creating a safe, consensual, and empowering environment for exploring your deepest desires. Dive into my story to see how my experiences and philosophy shape every session, ensuring a fulfilling and transformative experience for all who enter my domain.
From dominant to Dom
Being dominant came naturally to me, but being a Professional Dominant took years of exploration, education, training, and hard work. And I continue to learn. I grow and evolve with every session, every interaction I have, and every piece of research I do. For me, BDSM is a beautiful, endless exploration of mind, body and spirit.
Being in control has been part of who I am from a young age – I was required to raise a younger sibling and look after my mother.
While working as an exotic dancer I discovered its full power and beauty. I wielded the power to keep alcohol and hormone fuelled patrons in line, and I saw the beauty when customers made kinky requests. Requests for spitting, spanking, choking and sucking on sweaty stockings piqued my interest and awakened my Dom. Soon I was asking clients about their kinks, and finding new ways to tantalise and explore.
From there I found a BDSM community I could learn from, started doing research, followed kink educators, worked with experienced Dommes in double sessions, learned from experienced subs, and immersed myself in this world.
The Personal Stuff
I’m neurodivergent with ADHD and ASD and I’m passionate about mental health in BDSM – and BDSM for mental health.
I’m a non-binary queer Dom. This means that I don’t identify with any particular gender, regardless of how masculine or feminine I may present. And I am attracted to a person’s soul and energy, not their gender.
We’ll discuss appropriate honorifics in your introductory session.
But none of this makes me who I am. My curiosity, my sense of humour, my intuition, my work ethic, and my passion make me who I am. I bring all of this to being your Dom.
My Limits
Limits are the cornerstone of safe, sane, and consensual BDSM. And just like you have yours, I have mine. Communication limits are my personal boundaries regarding how you can contact me. Hard limits are things I will never do under any circumstance. Soft limits are things I might consider with certain submissives under the right conditions. And requirement limits are things that have to happen for us to maintain a dynamic.
Communication Limits
Sundays and Mondays are off limits for all communication. They are my days off. Continued breaching of this boundary will result in me ending the dynamic. If you experience sub-drop after a session you must contact me for support. I am not available for chats in between sessions, you can contact me up to 48 hours before a session to discuss the scene.
Requirement Limits
Before we engage in a dynamic there must be an Introductory Session. The first few sessions of a dynamic will be limited to 15 or 30 minutes, nothing longer, this is to protect us both. Every session ends with aftercare and debrief of what was enjoyed –– Non negotiable!
Soft Limits
Dungeon sessions, Watersports, Foot worship, Physical contact, Blackmail, Financial domination, Blood play, Sub’s self anal play, JOI, Sub’s nudity, Urethral sounding.
Hard Limits
Exchanging sessions for services, My own nudity, Sexual services, Illegal acts, Intimate body worship, Physical touch as a love language, Scat play, Degradation directed at identity, Body shaming, Making a submissive cry intentionally, Pegging, Any form of anal play I have to give, Face slapping, Body modification/mutilation/permanent scarring, Calling me “baby” or other condescending names, calling me “Mommy“.