A 4-day immersive exploration of presence, ritual, and conscious power exchange
16–19 April 2026 • Bodhi Khaya, Western Cape, South Africa
Reserve Your Spot
What This Is
Sacred Kink is a fully clothed, non-erotic retreat designed for couples and play partners who want to explore authority, devotion, and connection with intention, depth, and reverence.
This is not a play party. It is not performance. It is a facilitated journey into embodied presence, consensual authority dynamics, and relational resonance — held in a ceremonial and grounded container.
Through guided embodiment practices, ritual frameworks, and structured partner work, you’ll explore how power, surrender, and intention can become pathways to deeper connection — with yourself and with each other.
What To Expect
Morning grounding and embodiment sessions
Breathwork, somatic practices, and stillness designed to open presence.
Facilitated partner work
Structured exercises that explore authority, surrender, attention, and pacing.
Workshops with intentional progression
From boundaries and consent, to nervous-system pacing, to layered anticipation.
Supervised partner exploration
Optional partner practices held within conscious agreements.
Reflection & integration tools
Journaling, group sharing, and guided processing to support lasting insight.
What won’t be here: nudity, performance play parties, sexualized intensity. This container is about depth, presence, and meaning.
Your Facilitators
Domme Claire
Founder & Lead Facilitator
Domme Claire is an educator, facilitator, and conscious power-exchange practitioner with years of experience working in dynamic spaces that explore authority, devotion, structure, and self-awareness.
Their approach to dominance is grounded rather than theatrical — focused on nervous system awareness, consent literacy, ritual framing, and relational leadership. They are known for creating containers that are both steady and intimate, allowing participants to explore power and surrender without pressure or spectacle.
Sara Mo
Somatic & Embodiment Facilitator
As a multicultural nomad, Sara has spent nearly a decade travelling the world, learning and teaching practices that support deep, lasting transformation. With a clinical background spanning pediatrics to end-of-life care, she carries a rare sensitivity to the full spectrum of the human experience.
Her work weaves traditional and non-traditional modalities, guiding people back into their bodies with curiosity and steadiness. Through various practices, Sara helps participants reconnect to sensation and regulate their nervous systems with care.
Amy Nelson
Somatic Intimacy Facilitator
Amy Nelson is a relationship and intimacy coach, creator of SomatoSensual Therapy, and a shamanic therapist working at the intersection of somatic awareness, psychological depth, and spiritual practice. With a background in psychology and extensive experience in advocacy and relational diversity training, Amy supports individuals and partners in exploring intimacy as a grounded, consensual, and deeply human practice.
Their work integrates nervous system awareness, emotional intelligence, and ethical connection, guiding people toward greater presence, authenticity, and relational understanding.
Who This Is For
This retreat is for:
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Couples or play partners of any gender or orientation
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Curious beginners and experienced D/s pairs alike
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People drawn to spiritual ritual, somatic practices, or conscious relating
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Those seeking intentional connection, not erotic expression
If you want depth, care, presence, and ritual, this experience will meet you there.
What's Included
Your retreat rate includes:
All facilitation + guided sessions
Morning grounding and partner workshops
Welcome packet and ritual goodies pack
Meals, lodging, and shared ceremonial spaces
Reflection materials and facilitator handouts
Closing ceremony and integration sessions
Please note: Rates are per couple, not per person.
In Conscious Partnership With
Sacred Kink 2026 is proudly supported by Allure Sensuality Emporium, our Full Retreat Partner.
Allure is known for their elegant, body-positive approach to sensual expression — offering refined tools, toys, and sensory play pieces designed to celebrate confidence, curiosity, and connection. Their ethos aligns deeply with the heart of this retreat: conscious exploration, intentional presence, and empowered embodiment.
Throughout the retreat, selected Allure pieces will be thoughtfully woven into our partner practices and ritual kits — not as performance props, but as tools for reverent exploration. You will experience how texture, restraint, and adornment can heighten anticipation, awareness, and relational depth within a grounded container.
You will also receive a curated touchpoint from Allure in their retreat kit, along with access to a private community offering to continue your journey beyond the retreat.
We are honoured to collaborate with a brand that understands that sensuality can be elegant, embodied, and sacred.
A Gentle Note on Language
We describe this experience as Sacred Kink not to sexualize it, but to emphasize intentional practice, embodied presence, and conscious power exchange — held with reverence and structure.
If you’re drawn here, you’re invited to explore not just what you do, but why you do it — with attention, care, and curiosity.
Invitation
This is not about escape.
This is about returning — deeper into your body, your partner, your presence, and your own power.
We hope to hold that journey with you.
Ready to Begin?
Spaces are limited to preserve container quality and depth of experience.
FAQs
Is this retreat sexual?
No. Sacred Kink is a fully clothed, non-explicit retreat.
There is no nudity, no genital-focused play, and no sexual performance in the shared retreat spaces.
We explore power exchange as ritual, embodiment, and relational practice — not as public erotic expression.
What does “facilitated play” mean?
Facilitated play refers to guided partner exercises that may include:
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Sensory layering (blindfolds, feathers, touch)
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Authority and surrender practices
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Structured power exchange drills
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Nervous-system pacing and anticipation work
All participation is optional and consent-based. Nothing is forced or expected.
Do I need prior kink experience?
No.
This retreat welcomes both curious beginners and experienced D/s pairs.
All frameworks are taught clearly and progressively. You will not be thrown into anything without preparation.
What if I feel nervous or overwhelmed?
That’s completely normal.
We begin with grounding, breathwork, and relational pacing. The retreat is designed to gradually build intensity over the days, with support and nervous-system awareness woven throughout.
You can always opt out of any exercise.
Is this open to all genders and orientations?
Yes!
Sacred Kink welcomes couples and play partners of any gender or orientation who are interested in exploring conscious power exchange.
What is the atmosphere like?
Intentional. Reverent. Playful. Structured.
This is not a party space. It’s a container held with care, where depth and connection are prioritised over performance.
What’s included in the retreat fee?
Your investment includes:
- 3 nights accommodation at Bodhi Khaya
- All meals (breakfast, lunch, dinner)
- All facilitated workshops and guided practices
- Welcome gift pack
- Ritual materials and take-home integration kit
- Post-retreat integration resources
Can I attend alone?
This retreat is designed for couples or established play partners attending together. If you’re unsure whether your dynamic qualifies, please reach out before booking.
What is your cancellation policy?
Your place at Sacred Kink is confirmed upon receipt of a 35% non-refundable deposit.
The remaining balance is due 14 days before the retreat (by 2 April 2026).
Because accommodation, catering, and retreat materials are secured in advance, the following cancellation terms apply:
Deposit
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The 35% deposit is non-refundable.
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Your booking is not confirmed until the deposit has been received.
Cancellations 60+ days before the retreat (before 15 February 2026)
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You may transfer your booking to another suitable couple/play partner (subject to approval),
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You may receive a refund of payments made, excluding the non-refundable deposit.
Cancellations 30–59 days before the retreat (16 February – 15 March 2026)
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50% of the total retreat fee is refundable.
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The deposit remains non-refundable.
Cancellations within 30 days of the retreat (from 16 March 2026 onwards)
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No refunds can be issued.
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You may transfer your booking to another suitable couple/play partner (subject to approval).
No-shows or Early Departure
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No refunds will be given.
Still have unanswered questions?
Please contact Domme Claire via Whatsapp.
When reaching out, kindly include:
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Your full name
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Your partner’s name
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Confirmation that you are enquiring about the Sacred Kink Retreat
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Your specific question(s)
This helps Domme Claire respond clearly and efficiently.
We look forward to hearing from you.