Vanilla vs Kink – What’s the Difference?

This short but potent video breaks down the key distinctions between traditional (vanilla) intimacy and kink dynamics — in a way that’s welcoming, non-judgmental, and empowering.

Whether you’re brand new to the scene or just beginning to question where you fit, this is your starting point.

Domme Claire demystifies kink with clarity and warmth, exploring:

• What “vanilla” sex actually means (without the shame)
• How kink introduces power, structure, and intentionality
• Why it’s not about pain — but about permission, presence, and play
• The emotional and psychological layers that make kink so compelling

This is a soft entry point into the world of power exchange — with no jargon, no gatekeeping, and no pressure to identify a certain way. Just honest conversation about where the lines blur, what truly matters, and how to explore with consent and confidence.

🎯 Perfect for: beginners, the curious, or anyone rethinking their relationship to control and intimacy.